I just found out I'm pregnant, still very very early.....4-5 weeks. I'm having a small amount of spotting frequently (like, it's barely any on a liner, but there's dark red, brown, or bright red most times when I wipe....but occasionally it's a little heavier and it's still never heavy enough to fill a liner, but there's definitely a noticeable amount on the liner) There's a pool party I have to go to today w/ DD that it would be really hard to cancel on. She will want to be in the water, and needs me in the water with her. Can I wear a tampon if I'm pregnant or is that a big no-no? I'm worried about not wearing a liner -- I don't want anything to get in the water or be noticeable if I get out of the water. Other options of what I can do? (Also....I know it's so early it's just a "what will be will be" in terms of the pregnancy, but I'm totally upset about the spotting....I did spot a lot with DD, but it wasn't until later in the pregnancy. Anyone spot this early in the pregnancy and have it work out?)