9 year old emotions and clothes....
My DD has started being very concerned/interested in her appearance, specifically clothes. This started a few years ago, but has grown each year. Now she is VERY specific about what she wears. She picks out her own clothes the night before each school day and about half the time she decides the morning of that she doesn't like what she chose for whatever reason and gets very upset. Crying, yelling, etc. I tell her, no problem, go pick something else out, but she is very indecisive so she can't figure out what else she wants to wear in the moment. Then we get to the point where we have to leave in 5 minutes for the bus and her hair isn't done and teeth aren't brushed, and she's crying and so upset. It makes me so sad she feels this way! And obviously frustrated because it ends up taking up large parts of my morning when I'm trying to help 2 other kids get up and ready, not to mention myself. I also don't like her going to the bus stop crying and upset.
Any tips to help her deal with this? I know it's just the beginning of the preteen years so I am not necessarily expecting her behavior to change- just wondering if there is some approach I can use to help her work through it.... more quickly
M, mommy to A 2005, E 2007, and L 2010