Many of you know DS2 has some challenges in life. In general things have been massively improving. DS2 has possible ADHD and NLD and sees a therapist weekly for his emotional issues, an OT and SLP and a tutor. In general he is a kind child but does at times get very ANGRY usually at me, sometimes at DH and last year at school at his teachers (thus the therapy and some meds).
This morning was off to a good start and DS2 dancing and hit his head in the hallway (out of sight of DH and DS1). He said "ouch" and when I looked I could tell it hurt more than a little bump (but not big bump etc) so I went to him and hugged him and offered to get him a ice pack and told him to go sit on DH's lap. DH and DS1 were sitting on high bar stools eating breakfast (DS2 had already finished). As DS2 was going to DH he slammed into DS1's chair to tip him over in anger. It was very scary. DS1 was mad (understandable) and DS2 was upset that DS1 had not asked if he was ok or been concerned about him and then went on to say that DS1 never says he loves him.
SOOOOOO after a chat and some apologies we moved on this morning with our lives. HOWEVER this is a big flag for me. As in WTH is going on -- who does that?
Thoughts?