I am still glad I deferred to my highly respected and amazing OB and believe her when she said it wasn't just a quick five minute deal. Maybe we do c-sections differently? dunno. She gave a very detailed description of why they don't just routinely suggest it, though were willing to do it if patients wished. I would suggest the OP ask lots of questions and be totally and completely sure. Though I see no reason to "keep options open" when married 20 years and three kids already! ETA - it seemed obvious that my last sentence was tongue in cheek - and about my own situation, but guess not. Sorry. Email/list serve communication can be hard