Mama to :
DS1 (July 2011)
DD (Feb 2014-June 2015)
DS2 (Apr 2017)
"You never really understand a person until you consider things from his point of view...Until you climb inside his skin and walk around in it."
--Atticus Finch (To Kill A Mockingbird)
I just wanted to offer a hug and let you know I'm thinking of your family.
dd1 10/05
dd2 11/09
and ... a mini poodle!
I'm sorry. I'm so sorry. I don't even know you but I want to come and see your baby and bring her flowers and bring you dinner and maybe this is sounding creepy which isn't my intent at all. I just feel for you guys. Maybe your ILs cannot handle the emotional aspect of it? Although their neglect of the new baby it seems like maybe they are just self-centered!
I 123LuckyMom is probably right. I am so sorry. It's so obviously "off" that there must be something going on. I agree I think I would just say, "it's really hurtful that you haven't visited the baby" and see what their response is. I will be praying for her this morning!
I'm so sorry, OP. That's awful. Hugs to your sweet little baby.
DS age 9
My in laws would behave the exact way yours are and it is infuriating. I am sorry your DH is hurt by them. It's hard to watch your spouse be hurt by their own family.
SAHM to Pete and Repeat my "Irish Twins" - DD 12/06 and DS 11/07
Never argue with an idiot. He'll bring you down to his level, then beat you with experience.
Oh I'm so sorry. That behavior is just unacceptable and very hurtful. I'm sure they do have their reasons, but honestly who cares. They should be there, period. I'm sorry. I don't know the backstory on why your DD is in the hospital, but I hope she is improving and will be out soon. My thoughts to you, Mama, and your DH.
It is a horrible thing to realize the members of your family aren't the people you think they are. BTDT. I hope in time your DH can forgive them, and move on with coming to terms with who they really are.
Molly
Lula '06 outgrew her allergy to milk & eggs, still allergic to peanuts and cats
Dolly '10