So, a couple that I know adopted domestically about a year ago. He has a nice job in finance (DH used to be his coworker, so is pretty sure he knows he makes ballpark 6 figures). She is a SAHM. They are now looking to adopt again and have advertised a Gofundme page on FB. Now, before gofundme.com, I knew a single, school teacher mom that was adopting from Africa and she did multiple fundraisers (where you actually got something in return, like home party) and I had no problem donating/giving. But i am having a real problem with this "gofundme" thing!
Here is why: the husband wears $100+ jeans, she chooses not to work, he golfs as a hobby, he drives a high end luxury car that he bought used (let's say either a mercedes, bmw, audi, lexus type car), they own a home, and a condo that they rent out, pics of them at the beach on FB.
I mean, really?! I know adoption is super expensive. the gofundme page was at first asking for $30K and was reduced to $20K the same day.
I know i do not know their personal financial situation 100%, but I do know that these people would *probably* qualify for a $20K loan at any bank in town. maybe I am missing something? The gofundme page says expenses are for adoption, birthmother expenses, travel (it's a 10 hour drive where the potential BM is located).
This honestly burns me up! She is even asking our Sunday School class for money! Presented as "we are doing the world a favor by adopting a child; please support this worthy cause". yes, very worthy. But i don't agree with asking for it to be funded by other people's hard earned money when all appearances say they have plenty. UGH. What's your thoughts? Ever heard of this?