" I object to violence because when it appears to do good, the good is only temporary; the evil it does is permanent." Mahatma Gandhi
"This is the ultimate weakness of violence: It multiplies evil and violence in the universe. It doesn't solve any problems." Martin Luther King, Jr.
Does the cold really need to be cold or can it be room temperature? I don't worry about keeping yogurt or cheese cold for a few hours (they were invented to preserve dairy, after all). Fruit, veggies, hummos are also safe at room temp the same day, as long as your kids don't mind that it's not refrigerator-cold.
We use the Zojirushi Ms. Bento. If you prime it with hot water, the bottom container stays warm (my son takes in mini ravioli and meatballs and he's never complained) and the top gets no warmer than room temp. I usually put fruit in the top container and my kids report that it actually stays pretty cool.