A week ago, my laptop got ruined. I left it on the counter and DS spilled water on the counter. DH was home at the time, noticed the water spill, wiped around my laptop but left it sitting in a pool of water for about 9 hours until I went back to use it again. Now it's completely busted, and I have no computer.
Yesterday, DH asked me if he should throw away that "old carseat in the garage". I figured he meant my cousin's 7 year old expired infant seat that's been sitting in the garage for 3 years. So I said yes. Instead, he threw away my daughter's infant seat that was only one year old.
All our dishes are chipped, we can't have wine glasses with stems, because they get tossed around and broken. Every important paper we need is crumpled and stained. He showed up yesterday to DD's doctor's appointment with her dressed in dirty boy clothes with food all over her face and hands. I'm just tired of it! I know that with little kids that accidents happen, but I don't feel like I should need to watch my husband!
When confronted, I don't even get a "gee sorry, it was an accident, will try harder". Only:
-You shouldn't have left your computer on the counter. How was I supposed to know that water would get under the computer?
-You should have communicated better which car seat to throw away. How was I supposed to know you meant the old expired one not the brand new one?
-Why does it matter if the doctor thinks we don't wash clothes or bathe our child? You should have told me you wanted me to change her outfit.
There is just no attempt at common sense or thinking things through. Yet, it is somehow all my fault for not telling him to clean up a spill, not break things, not throw out expensive useful items, or dress the children in clean clothes!