All 3 would annoy me. That being said, DH asks for very clear instructions. He will ask me, "What do you want DD to wear to _____?" or "The yellow car seat with flowers is the one going, right? It still looks good, so I just want to be sure." Both are recent examples of questions he's asked. He knows that I'm fussy about what DD looks like when we take her out, and I'd rather not leave it to her to decide what an "appropriate" outfit is for some things (doctor's office, meeting rarely-seen family, visiting her first foster mom, or other times when people may be "judgy" about appearances). And he knows that I'd freak if he took a Britax to recycle without checking 1531856 million times, especially because it still looked good because we changed the covers quite often.
--Mimi
Mom to Lala (2004), Bonus Mom to Big Sis 1 (1991) and Big Sis 2 (1992)
Grammy to Big Kindy Kid (2011), Big Pre-K Kid (2012),
Grandbaby Appendage (2014), and New Baby Grandboy (summer 2017)