First, a BP moment. I DO NOT WANT ANOTHER KID WITH AN IEP!!!!!!!! UGH!!! I can't believe this is happening.
A couple of months ago, I received surprising news that my kindergartner might need OT for handwriting. It then snowballed into a more thorough evaluation, with suspected sensory issues (teacher's impression). He's become extremely active lately, bouncing like Tigger. However. My 9yo is a sensory kid and 5yo is SO TAME and so different in comparison. It's like he's "normal" active, if that makes sense. My 9yo was always falling, leaning, getting upside-down, etc., which is how I view typical sensory issues. The only specialist in attendence will be the OT; I imagine if there were deeper suspected issues (ADHD), I'd have the full troop like I did with my older son (psych, sped, etc.)?
My question is: can an IEP meeting result in a 504? Would a 504 provide OT? Or if he needs OT, does he get an IEP? I was reading that he needs to demonstrate or be diagnosed with at least one of a certain list of disabilities to qualify for an IEP. What if they determine that he needs a part-time para to help him stay on task? I do wonder if he'd do better in a smaller class, but I don't think they're splitting it up for next year. Two 10-kid classes might be too small, even for our tiny school. I'm not going to push for anything, because I honestly don't know what he needs, if he needs anything.
More below, if you want to read. I was trying to keep this post short! I just want to be a little more prepared before the meeting next week.
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My 5yo is one of 14 boys in his class, along with 6 girls. I've talked to a few other of the boy parents, and they're all getting notes home about behavior, too. My son doesn't sit still, doesn't focus on his work, etc. He also doesn't sit right on the bus without a bunch of reminders. I've been able to take care of that part with the removal of Minecraft as punishment... but that's just a short ride compared to all day.
I am not pursuing any diagnoses outside of school at this point. He is obedient. He does what he's told here at home, and does it quickly. He gets dressed and brushes his teeth on his own in the morning, usually without prompting. But yes, if we sit to play a board game, he'll bounce all over, bang the table with his feet or hands, roll his chair around, and be disruptive. My 9yo and I are doing yoga together with a video, and I can't have my 5yo around because he's too disruptive to us. Maybe I'm comparing him too much to my 9yo, who very clearly had issues since toddlerhood? My 5yo seems so neurotypical to me.