Ds1 wears a lot of athletic type clothing typically but has always had a couple of pairs of thinner elastic jeans he will wear (jumping beans or target brand). Now that he is out of toddler sizes these softer options seem to have disappeared. I have a ton (and I mean a ton) of about 10 year old osh kosh and gap jeans from dn. Some are even elastic waist but ds doesn't like the "tight" jeans ( they actually fit him ok). I can't blame him....most of my jeans have a Lycra component and are softer...same for dh and for dd (jeggings are super easy to find which is all she will wear). I haven't shopped much since I thought I was set with the dn stash. Are boys jeans now any softer and less stiff and heavy? Where would be the best place to look?