DS1 has a 504 for ADHD. Homeroom does not have any "credit". I guess it is just pass/ fail. Also, he's in 6th grade so grades don't matter at all yet. But, this is s pretty good representation of his middle school career in general.
Here's my jumbled thoughts:
DS1 is smart and gets all As on tests. He's not getting behind in subject matter.
He's still figuring out middle school.
Seems like the accommodations are not quite enough perhaps.
I don't want to be a helicopter parent or not let him find his own way.
I think to succeed DS needs more help. Possibly from me but from school for sure but I hate asking for that from the teachers.
Also, I don't want to make things too cushy but at the same time I want him to have a good experience.
I want him to be happy and successful as an adult and don't know what I need to do RIGHT NOW to help him. DH is concerned about the F.
I have s conference on Thursday and am not sure what to ask for.
WWYD?