DS1 is off to school this week -- it is a school that specializes in dyslexia. His processing speed is coming to light more and more (DH has this same issue) yet he is SO smart. Think he will have a good year this year after the first month or two (which is always bumpy for him -- just adjusting to new stuff).
DS2 is in our local public school. He has a good teacher (I am told, don't know the teacher) and with kids he likes. His 504 will be updated in October. I am cautiously optimistic as he has made a lot of progress this summer. At some point in the next year or two academics are likely to create a lot of anxiety and issues for him. He is at or above grade level and has had a tutor for the last 2 years (to keep him a little ahead to help with the anxiety). Time will tell!
DS #1 Summer 05
DS #2 Summer 07