Thank you! Now, I really don't know what to do. He has not replied to an e-mail that I sent late Fri night (so pretty much Monday work week wise). He did not get dd on Tues, but got her today. I am willing to give him the Tuesday being the day after a holiday. However, dd has been very adamant that she doesn't want me to share with him the reasons she is uncomfortable with him. I told her she would need to do her best and work with him if she didn't want me to share, which she agreed to. So, now the only issue for me to address with him would be to clarify one small issue, to make sure he continues to see her before he goes on leave, and that I did send him an e-mail saying I really needed to talk to him about dd and he has not responded.
WWYD? Decide things have resolved well enough for now or e-mail again about the few loose ends?
lucky single mom to 20 yr old dd and 17 yr old ds through 2 very different adoption routes