Here is what you need to remember... The I is for Individual. That means that they need to provide what your individual child needs, even if is not one of their standard options. So they have only offered the "as needed" option if declassified... If your individual child needs that while still on an IEP... They need to provide it.
It sounds like you need to approach them with a conversation that says he needs these things to be successful which we know because those are working. Then ask how they are going to provide those in the least restrictive environment.
ETA: Another thought is to ask for something else other than what they have listed as the options. Ask for 2 days a week in resource room, rotated among the classes you listed. I do worry that if you say "as needed", your DS may not want to go. Something less than five days a week may be appropriate and less restrictive, but keep him on an IEP and make sure that he is going. If things start to slide, then you can easily ask for more time. If he does well, maybe trial the "as needed" in the spring semester.
Getting appropriate level of service should not be contingent on you agreeing to drop the IEP.
Last edited by o_mom; 02-07-2016 at 06:28 PM.
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