Beyond planning for retirement, we haven't done much. We'll have 2 pensions (military, and public servant), and then whatever I have in my retirement account. It should keep our standard of living about the same.
We bought a "forever house" planning on being here, well, forever. We purposely made sure we could get a wheelchair through the doorways, it's all 1 level, and it can easily be fitted for grab bars and such.
DD(12) currently expects to move in with us when we're old, LOL, and has told us this, "because Sis 1 and Sis 2 have husbands, and kids, and I don't, and I'll live longer than them, so I'll just move back in. But don't worry, my kids can have my room until I need to move back into it."
FIL and step-MIL both died very suddenly and unexpectedly in the last 3 years. Thankfully, they had some serious foresight, and they had pre-planned everything about their final wishes. DH and I have discussed getting our final affairs all figured out to ease the burden on the kids, but we have yet to do anything beyond choosing where we want to be buried. We need to get on this, as it gives me great anxiety not having it done.
--Mimi
Mom to Lala (2004), Bonus Mom to Big Sis 1 (1991) and Big Sis 2 (1992)
Grammy to Big Kindy Kid (2011), Big Pre-K Kid (2012),
Grandbaby Appendage (2014), and New Baby Grandboy (summer 2017)