I had (and still have) my PPB boxy backpack from DD1. I also have an OiOi messenger. I hated the first one (oops) and the second was ok (thank goodness I got it secondhand). But I really need a backpack this time around. Not only do I have a bad back, but I do a fair amount of baby wearing. I've been looking at the Skip Hop Forma but I'm open to suggestions. I know this bag will basically be my purse for a couple of years so I'm willing to spend up to $200 (I'm also a purse person, so...) I'm also not on board with a regular backpack unless it's attractive. I know it's silly, but a regular backpack just looks weird with some clothes.

I need to carry the usual diaper changing stuff, a bottle or two, my own Kleen Kanteen and DD1's, and a large ziploc with an emergency change of clothes for my big girl. I would prefer a separate section/compartment for my cell, wallet, and personal items. I've heard excellent things about the Skip Hop clutch, so I'll probably get one of those as well.