Ok so, she has the 4th practice tomorrow. More sobbing today when I told her practice was tomorrow. Followed by more crying before bed tonight. I am having DH take her to practice tomorrow, he is going to stay and watch and see if she's really being excluded. How, I'm not sure, but he's feels he can read the body language on the field with 50 girls all doing drills, etc.. I also emailed the coach with some questions and mentioned that DD is struggling with adjusting to the team. So we'll see how that goes.
I am afraid this is going to make her hate the sport. I asked her to practice a little the other day and she almost burst into tears again. The coaches have emailed and said everyone should just be practicing like 10 min a day, and I feel like I can't even ask her to do that without risking a breakdown.
I will also say I get where she's coming from. When I am waiting to pick her up, no moms talk to me as I'm standing there alone. They're all chatting away with each other, offering to carpool, etc., clearly they've been doing it for years. So a lot of the girls must be close, too. <sigh> I thought she would like this. Silly me.
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