Get wishes and affairs in order OH and a burial plan

[Indianamom2]

I am so very sorry for the loss of your dad. You will be in my prayers.

I have been bugging my parents to do this. They finally made a will this year. I am 37.

[lmh2402]

omg, hillary. i just saw this. i'm so very sorry - I know your parents were very involved and a big part of your life...might be remembering wrong or a different poster, but I thought they lived with you or right near you. i can't imagine how hard this must be for you and your family. sending you hugs and peace.

[rlu]

I'm so sorry. My mom passed quickly. However she and dad had much of the plans in place. Even with many things decided it was an ordeal for our family to work with the various organizations, getting death certs, even copies of her birth cert and marriage license (really, get copies of those now and put in a box - luckily mom was a California girl so most things are somewhat local), picking out verses (she'd picked songs), ordering food, etc.

I do caution to really think about getting the all-in-one burial plans. My folks had done that years ago (thank you) and were still on a payment plan which came suddenly due for her and we ended up not using them for much of what they had bought (mostly having to do with the burial plot but there were other items in the "California" plan that weren't necessary/needed). Overall a relief to be able to call them up, give a policy number and they came quickly and respectfully (suits on) to do their piece of the plan. Hospice was there almost immediately to help me dress her before they arrived, but they weren't far behind.

Gah, I can't do this now, but I agree with your overall sentiment.

I'm really sorry for your loss. It never goes away.

[bigsis]

I'm so sorry for your loss hillview. Hugs and prayers to you and your family.

[hillview]

omg, hillary. i just saw this. i'm so very sorry - I know your parents were very involved and a big part of your life...might be remembering wrong or a different poster, but I thought they lived with you or right near you. i can't imagine how hard this must be for you and your family. sending you hugs and peace.

good memory
thank you all for your kind words I am grieving

[jent]

So sorry for your loss, Hillary. Sending hugs and positive thoughts.

[legaleagle]

So sorry for your loss - your family will be in my thoughts.

[sunnyside]

I'm just seeing this Hillview. I'm so so sorry. I can't imagine how hard this is for you, and just want to send my love and thoughts.

[essnce629]

Oh no Hillview I'm just seeing this now as well. How horrible and I'm so incredibly sorry for your loss. I will be keeping you in my thoughts and sending lots of positive vibes your way. (((HUGS)))

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[citymama]

I missed your post all these days. I am so very sorry for your sudden loss. Sending you good thoughts and wishes for strength.

Thanks for the PSA - that is good advice. Hugs.