If you have very different visions of how something should look regarding architecture or design, have you compromised or does one of you usually win out? I had a very different design vision for our pool (elegant and beautiful when looking at it from inside our house) and DH wanted fun features (grotto, slide). We tried to compromise, but since we added the fun features, they dominate the aesthetics of the pool. Now that the stonework on the pool is almost complete, I dislike it immensely. I feel like the views from our main picture windows pretty much just look out on stone instead of the beautiful greenery and landscaping that it used to look out on. To be clear, the stonework would all be very attractive to many people, but I prefer greenery to the stone. I also prefer a cleaner, more simplistic stone look instead of the natural boulder look that the pool has. Anyway, I would love to hear some stories from others on how you compromise, or maybe a little commiseration if you've had to compromise on the design you wanted.