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    Default I'm so heartbroken

    I'm so heartbroken. Dh just had a vasectomy against my wishes. I feel like I still haven't even gotten over my miscarriage and now this. I'm so so sad. He's 34 and I'm 35. 💔😢

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    Latia (Birth & Postpartum Doula and Infant Nanny)
    Conner 8/19/03 (My 1st home birthed water baby!)
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    Oh my gosh. Hugs, hugs, hugs, and more hugs. Oh, I ache for you. My DH really wants to get one and I have begged him not to. Actually, him just bringing it up made me cry. And for him to do it without you both being onboard is really, really hard.
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    I'm so sorry. DH talks about getting one, but that's it. I'm open to a third, he is not. Honestly, we are probably best with two. But I can't imagine that door being permanently shut. Hugs to you!


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    I'm sorry. That is a terrible breach of trust.
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    Wow. I'm so sorry.


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    I'm so sorry.
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    Hugs to you. There are no words (and I wish my DH would get the V). In your shoes, I am pretty sure I would need him out of the house or I would need to get out of the house for a while.

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    I am so sorry. Hugs!

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    I'm so sorry. My DH did the same after my last miscarriage. He told me about it before hand but I wasn't ready and told him so. He thought he was being helpful and taking care of me because I had a rough time physically and emotionally with the last one, so he insisted on going ahead with it. They just don't understand the rollercoaster flood of hormones and emotions after a miscarriage and the fact that it takes time to feel like you're in a place to make that decision. I'm so sorry! And I'm sorry for your loss- I hadn't heard. ❤️ Hugs.

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    I am so sorry, Latia. HUGE hugs. Vasectomies are tough regardless but I am especially sorry to learn about your miscarriage. I strongly believe that God has a plan for your family, my friend.
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