Can we talk about what rules you have in place for your high schoolers around devices? Our household rule is that mom and dad must always know the passcode to unlock the device and we have access to it any time at a moment's notice. We don't always exercise that option - and have been "letting out the leash" a bit with our teen but it has come to bite me in the rear so I need to get more restrictive again. :/ I'm curious what other parents do with their teens because I'm hearing a lot of "none of my friends have to tell their device passcodes". I don't necessarily CARE what the friends' rules are, but I am genuinely curious how other handle this and when/how they give more freedoms and trust.

My almost teen will almost certainly not have an issue with this because getting into trouble online isn't a thing that is of interest, but for my oldest it is a HUGE issue.