Originally Posted by
niccig
I caved on the cat and I’m glad I did because she’s a very snuggly cat and DS loves her. ..
DS does not look after the cat independently and he’s 12. He needs reminders. He now wants a bunny, says he’ll look after it. Both DH and I are an United “no” as the cat will hunt the bunny and DS hasn’t shown us he can care for an animal. ...
I could handle a cat. I got my first "my very own" cat when I was 11. I was responsible for all his first year vet bills, first months' food, changing his litterbox, getting him used to the comb, and making sure he didn't pee on the TV cord.
He was still "my very own" cat until I went off to college (no pets allowed in the dorms!) but my brother Joe assumed responsibility for him. I changed the litterbox when I was home on breaks.
I would actually prefer a cat, but we have a great many people in the family who are allergic so it's a no-go.
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Liz
DD (3/2010)
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