Originally Posted by
elephantmeg
thanks everyone for your feedback! I'm going to go with it. Ideally DH would get a v but he won't. Of course work is crazy right now but I'm just going for it (it's scheduled for May 31st), I sat down with the schedule person and we came up with some ideas for covering the 3 shifts I'll be missing. We're a small self staffed unit so coverage is hard-especially in the summer and we're loosing several people in July so it was now or wait until mid sept which is hard with the back to school crazies.
Not to jump down on you to hijack or make you feel worst. But why your Dh won’t go for the v? your procedure is much more invasive with longer recovery time. You after all did bear the children, birthed them etc! So least your Dh do is take one for the team to do his turn!
Totally different if you want it for more reasons beyond the birth control factor and already gonna under for c section or something else and they can do your tubal while there. But to just go in, get opened up, etc just for the tubal and to add in your scheduling issues with work too.
I’ll shut up if it’s a sensitive topic for you but it really peeves me to no end to see this in couples with the wife doing more, all because Dh won’t. The general dh, not specifically yours.
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