If you've read any of my other posts you know that DS's teacher this year isn't a great fit for him. Recently she started calling him "Messy Marv" because his handwriting is not good. His name is not Marv, nor anything near that FWIW. She calls him that in front of class, writes it on his papers and tells him he's living up to his name. I have seen a few papers where he writes "Marv" on his paper instead of his real name and then she writes "You're living up to your name". I can tell though that it really bothers him that she calls him this. He'll talk about it at home and says he can't ever do anything right. Do I just let it go? I just don't have a very good opinion of her and I don't want that to cloud my logical opinion. She told me at conferences that DS doesn't have much of a personality and she's trying to bring that out in him. This is the first time I have ever heard this from a teacher. So I don't know if this is just her way of joking with him or what. But I can see that it's affecting him because he's a perfectionist. I know that he's very uptight in her room and anxious because he's afraid he's going to get in trouble for doing something wrong. Does that give her the right to call him a name though? I mean it's not a super mean name, but it's not exactly positive either.