Update post 43: Dd grabbed during swim team
Almost 16 year old dd is on her school's swim team. Yesterday when I picked her up she told me that they were playing a game of "Minnows and Sharks" and a boy grabbed the part of her bathing suit near (near her crotch area) and pulled it really hard so that it snapped back and hurt her. She was in tears, and also had a lot of other difficult unrelated things happen yesterday. To complicate things further, this boy is her one and only ex-boyfriend and she was focused on that she did not know if he knew it was her or not when he did it. To me, the fact that he did it to anyone is not okay; although I am trying to discern if he would have known where on the bathing suit he was pulling and what the rules of this game are.
I immediately called the head coach, who told me she was not there that night (there are a few coaches, but this is the head coach and the only contact info I had). It was Friday night, and I acknowledged that...but she did answer her phone. I told her what happened and she was very low key about it. Possibly, she just was not in work mode or something like that.
So, wwyd? Dd agreed to calling the coach and we called her on speaker phone when I made the call.
Last edited by JustMe; 01-20-2019 at 10:26 PM.
lucky single mom to 20 yr old dd and 17 yr old ds through 2 very different adoption routes