Southwest has a very user-friendly rewards program. DH travels frequently on Southwest so we get several frequent flights a year, including east coast travel from California. It’s very easy to book And even change timings at the last minute without any fees, so for that reason it’s been a great asset for us. Unfortunately, long-distance flights usually involve a layover, though I have found flights that just stop in one place where you don’t have to get off During the layover because the plane continues on to the destination. DH is usually an A-list preferred, which means he gets additional benefits Like 100% earning bonus!, but that does require very frequent travel.
DH and I collected American miles for several years, including his frequent business travel and points racked up for hotel stays etc. but after years of saving, all we could get was four flights to the East Coast and We had to fly on Christmas Day. There were always too many blackout dates to make it useful, as those dates would coincide with school holidays, and if we were to use miles for those days, we would end up Using a lot more.
It’s Probably a good idea to get a credit card that’s affiliated With the airline. My brother has one and they never pay baggage fees, which is handy. They use their miles for upgrades rather than booking tickets. I get overwhelmed with the option so I’ve never committed to one.
As someone else stated, you don’t have to fly to keep the account active. You can usually trigger activity by earning miles with shopping or using the miles to buy a gift card or something like that.
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