DH works long hours-usually 10-12 hours so I know that he is busy and tired after work but he doesn't remember anything I tell him about the kids! He doesn't remember that I talked to him about signing DS up for soccer, he is always surprised when we get home late on Wednesdays because the boys have swimming lessons-even though swimming has been on Wednesdays for the last year and a half! He never remembers what school events are going on, and I guess that's just because he knows he can't make it to them but it would be nice to feel like he cares.
I'm extra frustrated this morning because I have the first appointment with DS's therapist for ADHD next monday. I've asked DH to take the day off because the appointment is 2 hrs long right at my toddler's naptime and I just don't imagine it will be easy to take the toddler! (And before you ask-no, I don't know anyone who can watch him, all of my neighbors work :/)
Well, this morning I asked DH if we had gotten Monday off. I just got a blank stare and a "What's on Monday?"
So, yeah, it looks like I get to fight this ADHD battle all alone because clearly it isn't important to DH.