Our DS1 just got his license this summer. Dh and I kicked around the idea of getting him a car over a year ago versus letting him work to buy his own versus letting him use one of our old ones and us getting a new one. We never completely agreed but we both had some strong thoughts about it. We didn’t want him to have a car that couldn’t be dependable. Both Dh and I had some experiences in our teens with old clunker cars that broke down at times and places that weren’t safe. We wanted to avoid that. Also, we really wanted all our children to be able to drive a manual transmission. We also wanted him to drive a manual to make it impossible for him to text while driving. We agreed it would be practical and helpful to have a third driver for our family taking kids to activities. And we wanted as many safety features as we could get.
So dh did a bunch if research and got him a new Volkswagen Golf Alltrack. It’s a station wagon and it’s a manual shift. It’s not “his” car, it’s ours and we let him drive it. It has been a great car for him and us. He takes our 4 kids to school (they all attend the same school) and brings them home after school (none of them have after school activities this year). He will pick up my groceries for me, he’ll run to the store if I am out of something, he drives the kids to all their extracurricular activities. It’s got amazing safety features and should handle the snow (and our steep driveway) fine this winter. When he leaves for college, we will give it to him with the hope that it lasts him all through college. We love that it fits all his and siblings downhill ski gear too. We are really pleased with it.
Last edited by gatorsmom; 09-13-2019 at 10:24 AM.
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