Originally Posted by
Liziz
Wait, you're okay with her coming for Christmas, just not staying with you? Or you'd rather just have a peaceful holiday without her visiting at all? Don't offer hotels or anything other than a "no" unless you're really sure you're okay with her at your house. What happens when she shows up, ostensibly to stay in a hotel, then "they lost the reservation" or "oh, I realized you have room so I just cancelled my reservation, I hope that's okay". Does the drama of her being around really lessen if she's in your house all the time except for sleeping hours? Obviously this is your family and your sister and you know what's best -- but I've been around these boards long enough to have seen multiple posts regarding your sister and it always seems like if she's given an inch she'll take a mile. I was going to suggest a response of "we're doing Christmas without visitors this year!".