Originally Posted by
hbridge
Thank you all for your advice...
I have decided that the current situation is not working for ME. Therefore, I am going to change my reaction to where the relationship is at the moment. I am not completely sure what this looks like, but the "cutting off all contact" is definitely not something I am at peace with. It has left me angry and anxious. If my sister does not want to be in touch with me, that is her issue, not mine. Therefore, I am going to send her a small birthday gift and send her a Christmas Card. This may do nothing but make her angry, but that is NOT my problem. I need to find my own peace and this is the way that, I hope, will work for me. We shall see...