OMG this drives me crazy. My MIL talked to my tween yesterday for the first time in months, and the only thing she said to him is, "are the girls chasing you?" He's a tween, he's not into girls. Even if he were into girls, would this be appropriate grandma talk? This is not the first time. Last time we visited, he was drawing, and she said, "are you not going to show me that because it's for your girlfriend?" He didn't not show it to her. Recently she asked DH when we were going to get the kids married off. She's elderly so there's not much to do about it. It brings back memories of being a teen and my extended family questioning why I wasn't bringing a boyfriend to family Thanksgiving and feeling shame because I didn't. Don't kids have the rest of their lives for relationships? Why must grandparents start talking about this before they are even teens? It's gross.