My Husband Died.

[solsister]

I don't post on here, a lot, but have been here for many years. My sweet, sweet husband was diagnosed with colon cancer on the 11th-
He had surgery on the 23rd, and passed away yesterday.
Get your colonoscopies, please. Please. Please.

We have a 17 year old daughter who
is devastated. I haven't worked since she was born. We had a small business that the Corona virus has completely wiped out.
He had some mental illness over the past two years that we are finding out is common with people diagnosed with gut cancers.
Brain-gut connection is real.
He let our medical and life insurance lapse, due to the mental issues. He was my best friend, and I loved him so damn much.
I am so sad, and so flipping terrified. I had an 18 year old son who was killed by a drunk driver when our daughter was just 3 months old. My dear husband saved my life during that time. I don't know how to do this without him...

[essnce629]

Oh solsister, I don't even know what to say. To have to go through something so incredibly painful all while dealing with what seems like a worldwide crisis just seems like too much. And to lose your husband after losing your son is like a cruel nightmare. I would hope that you have family and a support network to lean on during this time, but with all the quarantines I don't even know if that's possible and that's truly heartbreaking. I'm hoping you and your daughter can reach out to a grief counselor virtually at least. Please continue to post on here if it helps. I know we would all like to reach out and give you and your sweet daughter a virtual hug. Please take care of yourself.

[o_mom]

I'm so sorry. Peace to you and your daughter.

[jgenie]

I am so so sorry for your loss. I am sorry that you so much to worry about when you are in so much pain. Please take care of yourselves. I will be praying for you and your daughter.

[KrisM]

I'm so sorry for your loss.

[billysmommy]

I’m so so sorry for your loss.
It is so hard to lose someone so fast.


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[Mommy_Mea]

I am so sorry for your loss solsister, so incredibly heart breaking

[jawilli4]

Sending a million prayers and positive thoughts to you and your daughter. I agree your losses feel so utterly cruel and unfair. May you both find peace in the midst of so much sorrow and uncertainty.

[pinkmomagain]

Oh my goodness. I am so so sorry for your loss. That is devastating. How can we support you?

[KpbS]

I am so very sorry for your loss! Will be praying for you and your daughter during this time of grief. Please let anyone local help if they offer to bring a meal, run an errand, etc. People want to help and often don’t know how.