I'm feeling so annoyed and protective of my DH right now. Basically, DH is planning on reopening his orthodontic office as soon as the County confirms dentists are essential (our state already did, but the County is stricter). So he reached out to the woman who cleans his office once/week (on the weekend when no one is there). She's not tech-savvy so he usually texts her daughter (and the daughter texts him when her mom needs something, like extra garbage bags).
NOTE: DH has been paying the cleaner full pay during this 2+ month shutdown. That is a KEY fact. Most people are NOT getting full pay from the employer while sitting at home since she can't clean his office remotely. Anyhow, the daughter replies that her mom isn't comfortable returning to work and she understands if he has to hire someone else. DH replies with a long text saying he understands her concerns, he's nervous about the health risks to his family, too, and he's sad about ending their employment relationship, but he needs someone to clean his office. He explains that he has an obligation to his patients to reopen and make sure their treatment plans are on track. Not seeing the orthodontist for a few months can put them at risk.
The daughter texts back a curt reply about how she understands he has a duty to his patients, about how her mother is "so sad about this abrupt end" and promises to mail the office key back to him. If she hadn't used the word abrupt, I don't think DH would feel so terrible right now. It felt like a deliberate poke and an insinuation that DH did something wrong!
DH is now feeling so guilty and I know he isn't going to sleep well tonight. I'm so annoyed on his behalf. I tried to reassure him that the daughter was just being a little passive aggressive, but I know this is going to gnaw at him. He's a good man. He always tries to do what is right. This just SUCKS that her off-hand text is going to make him upset and stew over this for hours. That's the problem with text/email. Maybe she intended to be passive-aggressive, maybe she didn't.
Ugh. I guess I'll try to go to bed now since it's almost midnight and I still have to work from home tomorrow.