Originally Posted by
Melaine
Yeah that’s we’re where at....although we are not worried about providing food and shelter, so not quite paycheck to paycheck, financial stress is very high. Still paying on DS’s hospital bills 8 years later, deciding at the pharmacy whether or not to fill a prescription, going without a second vehicle for awhile. We literally never travel. Our kids are not able to do extra curricular stuff beyond rec soccer. There are so many things we need to do to our house that have to be put on hold. It’s just a different world than most of our friends are in, which is difficult. Of course, we have lost my income potential since we have chosen to homeschool. That’s definitely been a big sacrifice.
Given this information, I think it sounds like a good idea to pursue the opportunity. Ultimately, your DH has to make the decision but it will impact you directly. With the increase in hours, you will be responsible for more of the parenting and house stuff. Does the increased income overcome the increased stress of having less of his help? My DH works long hours, we have 3 very busy kids. He's great when he's here but I do a ton of juggling. But we don't have financial stress and that's worth a ton.
Mom to Two Wild and Crazy Boys and One Sweet Baby Girl