You need to ask about how your relative can be maintained when they have different needs. Here are things that people get surprised about when ADL can’t meet the needs.
-IS there a skilled nursing level? If someone needs treatments so you need a visiting nurse or is there in-house help?
-if someone gets aggressive because they are confused what happens?
-What are the different levels of help with medications? What happens if someone doesn’t want to take their meds?
-What happens if the person has a loss of interest in food? If they don’t show up for meals is anyone monitoring their intake?
-Can a person have hospice there? Usually you need to pay private duty nurses to stay 24 hrs or have family or move them out.
-If a person is hospitalized or needs rehab what happens? Usually the “rent” is still owed.
-Is there PT and other therapy there?
-How are they protecting against Covid?
I recommend these two articles if dementia is one of the issues:
https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2...of-an-ending-2
https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2...-dementia-care