Originally Posted by
carolinamama
So seriously, what is it you want everyone to do? I've heard your concerns, but I haven't heard your solution.
As for level of expectation? I expect my kids to rise above their situation. I expect them to grow where they are planted. I expect them to work to the best of their ability, even when the circumstances aren't perfect. I expect them to learn about resilience, perseverance and doing their part to better the world during this WORLD WIDE PANDEMIC. There are years we all simply must "get through". My expectations are that my kids learn how to muddle through bad times, make the best of it, and look forward to the good times. If that means I have a crappy attitude and low expectations, I proudly own it.
This! I’m thinking that this unique experience- if they live through it- will be good for my kids. It’s teaching them how to make do in a bad situation, that life is hard but to look for the silver linings, and all the things Carolinamama said. I’m also hoping that this pandemic will stir more kids into the sciences, will bring kids to see life from a different angle, teach them to find new ways to do old things, and will make them more confident in the long run. So now we just have to survive- we need to wear masks, keep our distance, and be careful. If we as parents teach our kids how to find the opportunities in this unique time in our history (and do less whining about what everyone else ISNT doing right because serious- is it really helping?), our kids could turn out stronger because of it.
Marymoo, accept it- there is no good situation in front of you. I’d find another way to support your kids. Have you thought about hiring a private tutor to come to your house? Or at a minimum work with your kids via zoom? It’s not ideal but it’s better than what’s on offer right now for you.
" I object to violence because when it appears to do good, the good is only temporary; the evil it does is permanent." Mahatma Gandhi
"This is the ultimate weakness of violence: It multiplies evil and violence in the universe. It doesn't solve any problems." Martin Luther King, Jr.