Other pp gave good suggestions, but I’m giving you a perspective of someone who cut off members of my family. You really don’t know every detail that led her to make that decision, I would respect her boundaries. You did say you had many years of doing things her way then she cut you guys off, so that likely isn’t helping things. But I reframe things in my mind saying I tried my best and now is really the time to let go and focus on yourself.
Yes there may be other relatives in your circle be upset with news of her marriage, but why does it bother *you* though? I would not say anything since you saw the news in a roundabout way and not directly from her. I also would not let myself be pulled in the family drama if you have other members venting to you saying how unfair,etc. just reply saying everyone is an adult and can do as they please, and move on to another topic.
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