I've always wanted to visit Carmel. I don't know if that's an appealing option for you? I love Napa and have been several times. I know you don't drink but there are wonderful restaurants and I find learning about the winemaking process fascinating. I also find that the symmetry of vineyards is so soothing to the eye. Not sure if crush season is starting yet, but we went once in October and the air smelled of wine. I love this resort and have stayed 2-3 times: https://carnerosresort.com/travel-up...mpaign=generic