DS is in 6th grade. He plays soccer, basketball, and swims. His coach for soccer is also his basketball coach. Last year we suspected something was going on with the coaches' basketball thought process because DS clearly deserved to play before many of the other kids that were getting put in the game. Last week at soccer, the coach approached me and asked where we stood on basketball this winter because he had been told by the other kids that DS was going to swim. Um, we've always swam in the winter and that's never affected his practice or game time. I explained that we wanted DS to be allowed to continue to do as much as we felt safe because he's only 11. He doesn't know what sport he will choose in high school, so why should I limit him now if it's safe and healthy for him to continue to participate in both sports. His coach was nice but replied with "Well, he's going to have to choose soon." This confirmed to me that they are probably pigeonholing him as a swimmer and not a basketball player, thus not giving him the playing time he deserves in hopes of developing the other kids. Yes, he'll have to choose eventually, but maybe he'll play jr high ball next year and decide he wants to do that over swim in high school. No one knows right now. Maybe he'll ruin his shoulder doing the butterfly and not be able to continue swimming. Technically dual sports are allowed in high school so he theoretically could do both ( wouldn't let him though, but that's not the point here). I just don't understand why we are focused on this now when can't see the future. Is there any way I can help reduce this idea that he is going to swim in the heads of the coaches so that he gets appropriate playing time now to develop his basketball skills?