Originally Posted by
bisous
OK. So are you close enough that you could ask her about it? I'm super close to my SILs. I might even try something like, "Hey, I've got a question for you. Do you love the China you got from my Mom? I was wondering because it has a lot of sentimental value for me in case you ever are thinking of letting it go." If she says that she loves it you can say something like "Oh then that makes me happy that you're able to have it." (And you have to mean that!) If she says, "Oh I don't even use it!" Maybe you can get it back? Either way it is being cherished right? I know this might not work for every relationship but honestly I have 7 SILs and I could ask this to any of them!
I really like this advice
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