I've posted before about dh's dysfunctional family. Sun I was on FB and I saw a post by his niece that she'd lost 'her best friend her brother' I was stunned no one bothered to call dh. I gave it 24h hoping that they would but then his other niece posted also about her brother and I A) had confirmation and B) realized no one else was going to tell dh.

He was 30yrs old and had battled addiction so I'm assuming that was the cause. Because of Covid, I doubt we'll drive the 3h to get to the service so another chance to connect lost.... not that dh seems to care.

just sucks all around