It is our 20th wedding anniversary. I came downstairs and found a fancy coffee (cappuccino?) maker, along with accessories, electric grinder, cups- But, nobody in our house drinks coffee! I bought a little French press for dd this summer because she sometimes likes to drink coffee, and once in a while I will make myself an iced coffee but generally prefer tea. I mean I will get a cappuccino in a restaurant occasionally but have no desire to make them at home. I'm really puzzled at why dh thought this would be a good gift- I think he was probably reaching for something to surprise me with, but umm - it takes up a lot of space and I just plain don't want it! I know his feelings will be hurt if I say something. I'm guessing he saw me and dd making iced coffee this summer and thought maybe it was going to be more of a thing- not sure. We have dinner plans and were maybe going to look at bikes this afternoon- so I thought that would be it- I get that 20 is a big one and he wanted to do something special, but he really missed the mark with this....