So I had a similar discussion with my mom who thought how awful it is to be shut down and shut in for so long and that this must be terribly detrimental to kids and teens. And it might very well be. But I also reminded her that she grew up in the late 40s and 50s at a time when the family had one car, used by dad, and that mom and kids hardly went anywhere. Kids played in the neighborhood and rode bikes to nearby places. Moms basically stayed home except to get groceries. Eating out at a restaurant was a rarity and going to a movie theater was a special treat. There were not malls to just walk around and hang out at. Schools didn't have many extracurricular or sports (especially not for girls) and at least where my mom went to school, they all walked home for lunch and then back to school for the afternoon so no cafeteria socialization. Oh and no buses. You walked to school. So I drew the conclusion that the past 6 months hasn't been too far removed from the 40s and 50s era EXCEPT for access to technology to facetime and game and do other interactive things. I don't know what the teen suicide rate was in the 40s and 50s and how that compares to now, but it certainly didn't seem like a concern back then as it is now. So I pointed out to my mom that she survived her childhood and teen years just fine. And that, to me, these past 6-7months have seem more like a cultural "reset" that has caused us to return back to staying closer to home, seeing going out to do things as a luxury not an entitlement, and being in the indoors with neighbors or just locally much more. To me things are far less hectic and in the end far less stressful for DH and me and the kids because we aren't trying to be 101 places at a time, with a jam packed schedule, or feeling pressure to keep up with the Jones.
That's my 2 cents.
Mom to two amazing DDs ('07 & '09) and a fur baby.
Gluten free since Nov '11 after non-celiac gluten sensitive diagnosis. Have had great improvement or total elimination of: migraines, bloating/distention, heartburn, cystic acne, canker sores, bleeding gums, eczema on elbows, dry skin and scalp, muscle cramps, PMS, hair loss, heart palpitations, fatigue. I'm amazed.