I am also sad that DS1 is missing out on the opportunity to work. I think we could probably make it work and some of the suggestions that PPs have made sound safe enough to me. The thing is, our family is very strained right now with all the distance learning, working from home and the whole 9 yards so it doesn't make sense for our family right now. I think if circumstances were even slightly different we'd be open. I think different circumstances are different for different families.