I’m sorry. That’s frustrating and scary. And I’d be livid at my Dh too. Hopefully it was a one-time mix up and your Dh just had a momentary brain block? On the bright side, your ds2 got himself safely to school. If you thank him and reward him for that, it could lift up his confidence. A little more self-reliance and self confidence in kids is never a bad thing!
" I object to violence because when it appears to do good, the good is only temporary; the evil it does is permanent." Mahatma Gandhi
"This is the ultimate weakness of violence: It multiplies evil and violence in the universe. It doesn't solve any problems." Martin Luther King, Jr.