Originally Posted by
marinkitty
What a terrible position to be in. I'm so sorry.
Since your DD wants it, I'd go with her and get it. I don't see that as sneaking around. She is old enough to decide for herself and only one parent is needed to give consent for the shot. Your DH knows how you both feel. You've tried to talk it out and he's being totally irrational.
I honestly cannot imagine allowing my DH to block a decision like this, particularly one I agreed with and one that could prevent the child from working, going to college, traveling etc. He gets to make that unilateral decision for himself, but not for his daughter, IMO.
This would be a "go to the mat" situation in our marriage for sure. Again, super sorry to hear you are in this awkward position. Good luck figuring it out.