You could reach out to the other moms and find out if your dd was alienating anyone or even unintentionally hurting someone’s feelings. I would want to know if my dd was making someone feel left out. Girls can be mean and need guidance on the best way to treat people at this age.
I was very intentionally left out in MS by 2 girls who were friends with me before they became friends with each other. It hurt for a long time. I actually think one of their mothers encouraged it. My mother was very hands-off. I felt alone in dealing with that and it was miserable. Having to figure that out on my own didn’t do me any good. It just made me feel like there was something wrong with me.
" I object to violence because when it appears to do good, the good is only temporary; the evil it does is permanent." Mahatma Gandhi
"This is the ultimate weakness of violence: It multiplies evil and violence in the universe. It doesn't solve any problems." Martin Luther King, Jr.