I’m an introvert and love my quiet time but my kids are middle school and older. They are very capable of keeping themselves occupied and are frequently gone in a million directions. The biggest change that this past year brought about was that I was stuck at home with my kids and Dh. Frankly, I loved it. No chauffeuring anyone back and forth to activities, no pressure to keep the house up for guests, no deadlines on homework and projects. I went to bed on time (or not), we spent time together enjoying each others’ company, we spent time talking and discussing everything going on in the world and how people around us were handling it. I’ve said it before here several times but there has been so much that happened the past year that we are grateful for. It was a once-in-a-century pause of life. I know lots of people were hurt by it so I hope it doesn’t happen again but I can appreciate the opportunities it brought me and my family.
Now it’s over and it’s back to life as usual which is the way it needs to be. My kids have to go back to in-person school, they are starting up their activities, I’m getting back to work on my projects and Dh on his. But for 15 months, I got an unusual break and we managed to stay safe. Dh and I and the kids learned to appreciate the life we had before because suddenly it was missing. And now it’s back again after a nice break. We are so blessed.
Last edited by gatorsmom; 06-10-2021 at 07:02 PM.
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