I was lactose intolerant for years, but it's gotten so bad that even 3 lactaid don't help. I'm pretty much off dairy now.
My picks:
Violife cheese sliced mature cheddar for sandwiches
Daiya shredded cheddar for burritos, etc. Note that this tends to have an oily texture to it after they changed the formula. It tastes good but I don't like the oil on my hands when I sprinkle it.
Miyokos fresh mozzarella for salads and pizzas. It's very close to the real thing.
Miyokos cultured butter for toast and cooking eggs
Mom to:
DS 10/03
DD 11/05